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03 Jun 2015, 17:02

About 1 year ago I was gang raped by 3 men who live in the apartment next to mine. I just really came to terms with it in the past 3 months and well I will be seeing all 3 of them again tomorrow and am afraid it will happen again. One keeps texting and calling me from different numbers and I keep blocking him but I'm scared.

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03 Jun 2015, 17:10

Please contact the Police. Show them the texts and any other evidence. Get help and get them behind bars. Don't go near them!!!

Worry Author

03 Jun 2015, 18:15

Do not put yourself in a situation to allow it to happen again. Don't hang out with them. Call police and report them even if rape charges cant be filed since its been so long harassment charges can be.

Guest

03 Jun 2015, 18:37

I can't avoid not seeing them again. I live in the apartment next door.

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03 Jun 2015, 18:59

Move...Report them to the Police!! Don't continue to be a victim or afraid. Get help!!!

Guest

03 Jun 2015, 19:30

Why should I the victim have to relocate? That is rape culture, and thy are part of the gang here if I make a report it will only get worse

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03 Jun 2015, 19:35

Reporting the crime is part if reclaiming your power. They would have been arrested and removed. It's your choice how to manage this issue. Only you can decide what is best for you. Moving and starting over would give you a clean slate and freedom you don't have living next door to criminals you don't want to report. Just an opinion...

Guest

03 Jun 2015, 19:40

That is a good suggestion but financially I can't. Believe me I try my best to avoid them and am working on helping the other woman these monsters have assaulted.

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03 Jun 2015, 19:54

Then create a plan for all women in your complex to be safe. Whistles, screams, phone trees to call for help if one of you is attacked. If you live in a war zone then you need to have a survival plan. Ban together and watch out for each other!!

Guest

03 Jun 2015, 20:04

It's Brooklyn NY police on every corner you would think they would help if they see a women not wanting to be with a group of men. Thy don't. I've started helping the other girls with programs held in my apartment

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