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13 Jun 2015, 02:54

So I was hanging out with this couple.
(tbh their so cute together).
And they left at 11:50...Their were these other two guys smoking some weed I think...not sure.
But once that couple left those one of those two guys yelled "Hey Victoria! What time is it?" And I replied "It's 11:55" and that one guy said "Isn't alittle late for a little girl" and I said "It's not that late..." And he then replied "Aren't you cold?" And i said "No It's not" and then he said "Still alittle girl shouldn't be out this late" and then I yelled "I'm not a little girl!"

5 minutes later he asked me again "Hey Victoria what time is it now?" I told him the time.
He then said "Girls shouldn't be out this late,you know that right?" And I got quite and he asked again 5 minutes later "What time is it?" I told him the time all the time he asked.

The two boys also got closer every 10 minutes.
And I stayed there for 25 minutes.
Then a car stopped for a minute.
And parked at a nearby house.
They walked away...after the car was parked.

Worry Author

13 Jun 2015, 02:55

I told my real life friend and she said "it was probably nothing. He's weird like that."

And I didn't think that's right.
I seen him pretending to be creepy like that.
He was joking.
He sounded serious.

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13 Jun 2015, 05:58

That's really creepy

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13 Jun 2015, 09:37

Where were you?

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13 Jun 2015, 14:27

@Ventus
I was at a bench on the other side of the park.
Also they were younger then me.
But one was stronger and taller. Their both stronger actually...

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13 Jun 2015, 16:03

Then why are you even engaging in a conversation with these men to begin with? That sounds more like 'dummy vibey' to me!

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13 Jun 2015, 16:43

Why would you even converse with those strangers? Putting on an innocuous front such as asking someone "What time is it?" or "Do you have a lighter?" is an invitation for a stranger to do something, whether it be to creep your out or even attack you! That's basic psychology 101!! You should not have spoken to them to begin with.

When I was younger, I had a stranger ask me if I smoke while we both were waiting outside of a library, then once I responded, he pressed on with questions like "Why aren't you in school today?" He could have been some weird stalker or even a social worker (<-- that's what I thought); regardless, he followed me to the mall parking lot entrance across the street and that happened all because I spoke to him.

Your parents tell you not to talk to strangers for a reason. If you observed two brawly men continue to (obviously) disturb you by asking you the same question and commenting about your age, you should have gotten the drift that they had no good intentions. How more unaware or naïve do you have to be to sit there even after their disturbing you?!

Don't be a victim of a Ted Bundy! Be aware and be smart! Duh!

Worry Author

13 Jun 2015, 19:08

I've known them for 10 years.
And they known me.
Their younger then me.
I didn't think to much of it.
Plus everyone knows each other in my town.

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13 Jun 2015, 19:12

Rape is a strong term to use don't you think? Strangers aren't the only ones who rape you know? If you didn't think much of it, why bring it up as an issue now?

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13 Jun 2015, 20:01

Rape doesn't have an age. Did you know that rape most often occurs between two "good friends" or people who have known each other for a long time? It doesn't matter who knows who, rape can happen to anyone, regardles. What really bothers me is why you took the time to post this if it doesn't even bother you as much as you led us on to believe and that their persistence didn't disturb you. All it takes is being able to overpower you, which those two men can easily do based on your description.

You should be more aware. It might not have happened this time, but you do not know what people are capable of.

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